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We examined how financial channels used to express care can also be used to control.
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The women we interviewed all told of their partners monitoring, denying and restricting access to money. In both the Anglo-Celtic and Indian communities cultural expectations around the way men and women manage and control money shape financial abuse in relationships.
For example t bank s are a symbol of commitment in Anglo-Celtic marriage. But another stereotype of the man as the provider also proved to be a myth among the Prospect county asian massage women we interviewed. Karen, 60, said her husband stopped working two years after they got married.
In the Indian community money controlled by the male in the family, is a means of ensuring family protection and well-being.
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She said:. Not all of our participants agreed to their husbands controlling their money.
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